Friday, December 21, 2018

"Wonderful Life"

Well, the holidays movies are playing! Some are very traditional and it's not unusual to sit through those same ones year after year.  "It's a Wonderful Life" is one of them.

Some remarkable comments have been made to me lately that indicated something that I did or said recently or many years past was instrumental in assisting that person in life.  One comment was, "you saved my sister's life!"  I honestly don't remember a thing of what that situation was. I explained that it "certainly wasn't me, but God." Another person's whole affect was different today, a minor miracle!

There are days I identify very strongly with the main character in that Christmas movie, looking only at his shortcomings and failures, until the angel, George, "saved" him from his attempt to end his life. I have never been suicidal but sometimes I don't "get it" that my life, my presence or words have done any good in this world.  Recently my sister told me that any positive benefit with others may not be for my gain, but maybe what they receive from my presence.  Hmmmm. 

No, I certainly don't go looking for accolades but when I meet a person and comments like these come to me, it encourages me to keep praying to stay in line with God's will each day for me.  That's what I pray for.  Most days I don't know how the day will look and most surprising gifts fall into my lap!

Yes, it's easy to see our own shortcomings and think they glare to others but not necessarily so. Maybe our presence or gifts are what they need from us, not what we need. Notice I am not saying "presents" but "presence."  There is a difference! It's a good thing there are others in my life who let me know indeed it is a wonderful life! It truly is!


If you would like a companion to talk about your "wonderful life" I can be reached at 920.793-3530 for spiritual direction.